Family TV
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By
Michael
Casey
They used to
say that the family that prayed together
stayed together, I think you can also say that the family that watches tv
together stays together. In our house it is a family thing, we watch tv
together. The joy of Sky+ is that you can stop tv and go make a drink and then
restart it. You can go to the bathroom or answer the phone and all will be
well, you won’t miss a thing, because you have a hard disc attached to the tv.
So
technology allows you to stop the tv and eat as a family and then restart the
tv, or watch a recording, the hard disc can hold up to 40 films and more. The
act of sharing the film together, or sharing the soap together does bond the
family. In the olden days, in the good old days we’d all gather around the
piano and sing songs. Or when radio arrived we listen to our favourite shows,
as a family.
Watching
films with my Shanghai girl brought us
together, and then though her English was at first limited I knew my wife was
clever because how we could talk about films. And this did in due course lead
to us being married and starting a family. So tv lead to family which then led
to family tv watching.
I suppose in
America we’d go watch a game or play
some sport, over here we’re not as sporty, we certainly are not Australian
either. So tv watching is what we all do as a nation, and in our house as well.
If you have a young family as we do the tv is the reward, and education too.
So one daughter
has read 100 pages for me, the other has had done her homework, so then they
can have some tv. So we have a great tv package from Sky, but what do we do, we
switch the tv off. I don’t miss out though as I can record was I want and watch it out of sync later. When the
homework is done then the fun can start, but for the life of me why is Peppa
Pig so popular?
Snacks make
an appearance, fizzy pop too, or a very occasional Stella for me, this is tv
time, family time. Everybody stocks up on their favourite treat, it might
be oranges freshly cut and arranged on a
plate, weird and wonderful Korean or Chinese snacks, whatever we all fancy. The
wife may have bought some fancy cakes on her way back from the shops, we are
almost like people at the cinema. Everybody must be the same, everybody has lcd
tv nowadays, so we all sit back and enjoy the show with our snacks to hand.
Many years
ago when I was single with no cares in the world I bought a fancy tv with nicam
stereo, just when it first appeared on
the scene. So this was our toy and joy, after 14 or 16 years it died, so we got
our flat screen tv. Which was 1/3 of the price of what I had paid for the first
generation nicam stereo tv.
So in the
home, as my Shanghai wife calls it, at home everybody else might say, remember
prepositions are altered when English is your 2nd language. At home
we can all have a pseudo cinema experience, this is fun, just as it was in the
1960s and 1970s, when I was growing up, and family tv watching the norm. This I try to preserve now with my
own family, switch off the family computer and let’s gather around the tv and
share the viewing experience.
With young
artists and musicians in the house tv watching can become noisy as we debate
about this and that, and pass snacks and drinks this way and that. It’s a busy
experience, but it’s a shared experience. Its Family TV Time.
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